This post is a hearty advice, extracted from an email that I received this morning, for those of us who are in our 30 and building our little "molehill"...
The author is Ms. Khoo Siew Bee, one of the most respectful and successful investment bankers in the industry, and a mentor to Ange and myself...
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....I thought I would share with you both a reflection I had recently as a result of an opportunity to make a business trip to Los Angeles a week ago. I think you would understand what I mean when I say that we never fail to know when we have arrived at our destination whatever our transportation mode. There is that heightened awareness, a slight feeling of disorientation and keenness to get to our final destination when we arrive at our destination regradless of how often we might have been to a place. It was the same for me when I arrived in Los Angeles. Yet, there was that comfortable feeling that I knew the place. The highways were like highways anywhere in the US. There were cars and cars everywhere, and the ubiquitous road signs telling the drivers which lane to stick to in order to get to their respective destination. My final destination on the day of my arrival, The Marriot, was like another Marriot in another American city. As I went around the city on work, the office and factory buildings were no different from same in other American cities. Visit to mall was not a strange event as it was occupied by shops/brands which I remembered in other malls elsewhere in the US. As in other big American cities, there were the Chinese areas in Los Angeles city where I did not even have to use any other language save Mandarin/Cantonese. That is, Los Angeles appears to be no different from any other cities in America.
Is it really however? If every city in America is the same (since each contains almost everything one could find in another city), why is Seattle still Seattle and not New York, and Washington, Washington and not Boston? It's the people, weather, history, geography, ongoing activities, cumulation of knowledge and experiences in each city which have made them stand out in their own way. As I reflected on this in between meetings in Los Angeles, I could not help but feel that each of us is the same as the American cities since we get similar inputs but we all make ourselves different as each of us has different aspirations. And the level of our achievement is subject to only one thing, how strong is our will to make a difference. Giving in to our situation is never a challenge. Confidence always comes when we feel we have achieved our little "molehill" and from this will spring new frontier to be broken and made...